31 December 2004

latest death toll, channelnewsasia link

The latest death toll hits 114,000.
A very good site from Channelnewsasia for news updates and links to the latest donation means:
Killer waves

29 December 2004

Outreach for disaster victims

News Headline:
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biggest earthquake in 40 years...the death toll surged past 63,000 on Wednesday...survivors told terrifying escape stories...

Another 22,000 were confirmed dead in Sri Lanka...Thousands of European and American tourists remained unaccounted for... Children made up a large proportion of the dead...

...fears of a catastrophic outbreak of disease.

But food and medicine was already desperately short in many stricken regions ... the overall death toll could surpass 100,000.

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...nearly 80,000 refugees in Indonesia's the provincial capital...
About 2,000 bodies were buried in mass graves, but many rotting corpses remained on the streets...
looting had broken out and starvation loomed.

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In Sri Lanka, the toll rose to 18,000
...hundreds of decomposed corpses.
....Mourners used their bare hands to dig graves...

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...4,000 people were confirmed dead in India's...officials said the toll on Car Nicobar alone could top 10,000.
...received no word from dozens of islands in the Andaman and Nicobar chain which stretch over 800 km and were close to the earthquake epicenter.
... vultures gathered as survivors grimly buried or burnt their dead. The number of dead passed 8,500 Tuesday.
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Thousands of foreigners remained missing in Thailand...
...government fears they are dead.
...700 foreign tourists are believed to be among those killed in Thailand.
... full horror wrought by waves up to 10m high that tore babies from the arms of their parents and carried children and the elderly out to sea.
..."People were screaming and kids were screaming all over the place, screaming 'help, help'. And after a few minutes you didn't hear the kids any more."
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Dear friends,
I'm sure you have heard of the disaster that have hit various countries.

We have been so fortunate to be safe and well with our friends and family. The festive period should be a time of sweet reunion with our loved ones. Instead, 'babies were torn away', and 'graves dug with bare hands'. This is no time for you or me to sit around and feel helpless. I think one report put it best: "If within three to four days relief does not arrive, there will be a starvation disaster that will cause mass deaths."

We may not be able to do much, but lets help in any small ways we can to make this easier for our friends in the affected area.

I have included some means of giving donations, various collection point and relief programs. I urge all of you to help in any small ways we can. This festive period, instead of buying gifts and holding parties, donate the money to charities, help out at collection centers, and spring clean, give away your old clothes. This will make your holidays so much more meaningful.


Thank you.
mingde

List of sites of supporting organisations that are sending relief aid, and links to their site:
http://asia.yahoo.com/reliefappeal/

***Mercy Relief***
"In response to this humanitarian crisis, Mercy Relief and its institutional partners. Singapore Soka Association (SSA) & Young Sikh Association (YSA) together with the Singapore Red Cross Society (SRCS) are conducting a nationwide fundraising campaign for the victims of the calamity. This fundraising effort would allow Singaporeans from all walks of life to extend aid and compassion to our fellow neighbours in a substantial and concerted manner. The funds raised will be channelled towards supporting humanitarian relief and rehabilitation operations for more than 12,000 families in the affected countries, and assist in bringing their derailed lives back on track.
For more information, please call Mercy Relief at: 6332 6320"

You can donate though many channels:
-Online,
-Phone,
-Credit Card,
-Cheques,
-direct ATM transfer,
-Internet Banking.

Information at their site:http://www.mercyrelief.org/asiatidal.html

***Singapore Red Cross***
Red Cross House
15 Penang Lane
Singapore 238486

Tel : 6 336 0269
Fax : 6 337 4360
(near Dhoby Ghout MRT)


1.)By chequePlease address the cheque to "Singapore Red Cross Society" and indicate behind the cheque "Tidal Waves Asia". Include name, address and telephone number at the back of the cheque as a receipt will be sent to you.

2.)Donors may wish to come personally to make a donation (either by cash or by cheque) at the Red Cross House, 15 Penang Lane between 9.00am to 5.30pm on weekdays and from 9.30am to 12.30pm on Saturdays.

3) Donors may also make on-line donation at DBS website @ https://internet-banking.dbs.com.sg

For more information, please contact us @ 6334 9152 / 6334 9153 / 6336 0269.


***BF FireFly Mission***
Buddhist Fellowship’s Firefly Mission, together with Tisarana Buddhist Association and Brahm Education Centre are launching a Suffering Relief Program for the Tidal Wave victims in Sri Lanka. We appeal to you for 3 types of assistance:

1. Donation of items:
Medicine, first aid items, sanitary pads, toothbrush, toothpaste, tin food, dry food and CLEAN (new if possible) blankets, towels and clothes. Please pack them in bags or boxes and label them separately, eg.Food, Blankets, medicine. Clothes to be separated and labeled MALE, FEMALE and CHILDREN bag. Boxes are preferred but please do NOT seal.
ALL items are to be sent to Tisarana Buddhist Association at 90 DUKU Road, Off STILL Road (East Coast). Tisarana Buddhist Association contact number is 6345 6741.

2. Donation of cash:
Cash donations are collected at Brahm Education Centre. Cheques are to be made payable to Brahm Education Centre Ltd.
Cash or Cheque made payable to "Brahm Education Centre Ltd" are to be sent to Brahm Education Centre, 9 Lor 29 Geylang #04-02, Singapore 388065.
Please indicate "Suffering Relief Program" on the back of the cheque.
Receipts of items purchased for the victims with the cash donations will be collated and accounts on how the funds are dispensed will be available for inspection at the end of the project.

3. Going to Sri Lanka to Help:
A team of volunteers is being arranged to go to the disaster sites headed by Firefly Mission Coordinators, to assist with the Relief Suffering Program on the ground by educating the victims on hygiene, precautions and dispensation of aid. Anyone interested to join this team, please submit your name to Judy Soon at bfellow@singnet.com.sg. Trip is likely to be during the first weekend of January, to be confirmed.

If you have any questions, please call us at 6842 6422 or 6745 5007.


***Singapore Sinhala Association ***
We are making an appeal to all to put our hearts and hands together and exemplify the spirit of mutuallove and giving. We are collecting items to donateto the victims in Sri Lanka.
The items could beanything that are daily essentials.
For example:Blankets, Clothings, sanitary pads, milk powder,biscuits/cookies, slippers..e.t.c
Kindly deliver your donation items to Marine Parade Family Service Centre before 31 December 2004(Friday) by 5pm.
Address: Blk 53 Marine Terrace #01-227 S440053
Tel:64450100

We will hand over all donated items to SingaporeSinhala Association (SSA) to directly hand over the items to the affected victims.

OR

The Singapore Sinhala Association (SSA) together with theSingapore Sinhala Buddhist Association (SSBA) andMaha Karuna Buddhist Society (MKBS) has commencedwith immediate effect a relief collection drive.
Goods collected in kind or money will be sent to SriLanka within the next few days.
Collection centre is at Sri Lankaramaya Temple, 30C St.Michael¡Çs Road,Singapore.

Following Items are needed urgently.
1.Tents / Blanket / Linen, etc
2.Food (Pre-cooked or Ready-to-eat meal packets)
3.Water Purification Tablets
4.Wheat Flour, Pulses and Rice
5.Drugs (Paracetamol, Antibiotics, Dressing & SutureMaterials, Disposable Syringes)
6.IV Infusion (Saline & Dextrose)
7.Portable Generators .

We are also jointly organizing a special MultiReligious Blessing service on 30th December 2004(Thursday) 7:30 pm at the Temple.
CONTACT 63910031 or 96751695.
Please visit http://www.singaporesinhala.com/disasterrelief/ for more information and updates.
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25 December 2004

Of Yahoo, interviews, and Christmas.

Wow, i have just got a temp job at yahoo singapore. I'll be there like 3 weeks. It's a great opportunity to learn, plus i can tell people that i have worked in yahoo before, how cool is that!

Just went for an interview at NEA. It sounds challenging, low-paying, and having to deal with people shouting at u everyday. I love it. What a great opportunity to find out what sort of person i'm. A chance to test myself.

On top of this, an IT company submitted my resume to MOE for the position of a teacher assitant. We'll just have to see how it goes.

On Christmas, me, shuiling, eugene, sheewee, dennis, went to adeline home for a gathering. We all had a great time. I love good food and i love even better, good friends.

A Merry Christmas to all. And to all, a blessed life.

17 December 2004

Youths Religion Progress Seminar 2004

I went to the Youth/Regligion/Progress Seminar 2004 by Darul Arqam Singapore today. It's held in the Muslim Convert's Association of Singapore.
Such kindness, that can be felt in the eyes of the people there. I came back with this understanding. Islam is a great, peace-loving religion. And it was stressed today that Islam, like all great religion should be a thinking religion; rather than one that is too fix on ritue and form.
My lesson today seems to be: Go out there, see how big the world is. See what you can do. Reflex, Reflex, Reflex.

Met a guy named suman today. He's a social worker from India who have work with poverty all over the world. Just a small dark man. But he speaks with a fire in his eyes.

I am humbled.

14 December 2004

No to casino in Singapore

The casino issue have been the talk of the town lately. I truly believes that it is a bad idea. People are arguing that gamblers will gamble in any case, legal or not; And people are already spending so much money in overseas and underground casinos that we might as well legalise it. But it is PRECISELY because people are already gamblering and losing money that we should NOT open a casino. Encouraging gamblering is against everything we have strive to achieve. The consequences will effect Singapore for generations to come. I do not see a casino in my vision of a great nation. In the end, playing against a casinos, the singapore people will always loss.
I urge all of you, please go to this web site and petition againsts having a casino: http://www.facts.com.sg

10 December 2004

VSA Camp'04

Wow. Back from VSA Camp'04, organised by Very Special Arts Singapore. The camp was held in NYP this year. Funny how my old school feel so much nicer and human now i'm not studying there.

It was really a last minute decision. Came to know of this program only the night before, and never cross my mind to take part. Went nyp for a swim and dropped by to say hi. Surprise, surprise, saw vincent. Who would have thought so. Turned out he's a rather regular volunteer. Wrestled with myself for 5 minutes and decided there and then to take part. Got my stuff, borrowed 20 bucks from mom and is back in 2 hours.
It really felt like looking down a misty cliff and deciding 'what the heck' and jump; free-falling into the unknown depth, not knowing where the bottom is.

Scare. Oh yes i was. I didn't know what to expect. Doubt is not knowing whereter you such be doing something and whereter you can do something. Gary and Gek kook didn't help with tales of Guan hua last year. But hey, they are back again this year. And the first night i went to bed with the thought: 'hey, if they can do it, why can't you?'

First day: Guan Hua, Shiaw Lun, Fern, Jessica, Li Qing, Wei Neng, Zhen Yuan; how can i ever forget them. We had dancing and artwork lessons together. One day felt so long, and its so tiring. Had to call Guan Hua's mom(what did i expect?). Ask me again, I felt i had a great day. A friend sms me how am i. I replied: i'm in hell, surrounded by angels.
That night, for the first time in my life, i check on children to see that thy are sleeping properly. When shiaw lun woke up, i pat him back to sleep; zeng yuan have a habit of moving his feet; wei neng slept well; and at 3.04am i found guan hua's sleeping bag empty, thanks god he's not too far away. I wanted to put his sleeping bag on him, but i was scare of waking him up. The last thing i need at 3 in the morning is a awaken guan hua.
And the volunteers didn't get much sleep either. I feel i cheated. Because i slept so much. There are people who stay up just so the kids don't wonder off, and bring them to the toilet. And gek kook, among others stayed up so late staring at their kids.

It's my belief that volunteering, especially with special children, attracts the best sort of people. Observed that there is more girls volunteers that guys. I noticed that the same is true in other volunteer circle too. mmmh...maybe brahm is right. More girls go to heaven. Btw, girls should take a hint. If they know a guy who volunteers, he'll probably be a caring boyfriend, and a great husband.

Day 2: Outing day. I've been tasked with guan hua. Decided to try out some of those methods i read about in managing children. When he's in one of his tantrum and took someone elses handphone, i use the 'mother' card. I was surprise at the effect. And I felt bad. It felt unfair. I can tell he love his mother, and by that, i also say that his mother love him. Because when you love someone, it goes both way. Many a time when he and i was alone, and i'm lecturing him, my eyes will water up, i think he felt it too.
The outing was to Singapore museum and a boat ride on the Singapore river. Had to wash guan hua pants before the outing, because he shitted in them. I remember nothing of the museum, and that's saying something.
That night we neng and zeng yuan didn't sleep much. I sort of wish shiaw lun will wake up too. I wan to pat him to sleep. When someone is so dependent on you. What else can you do but love as a father his child?

Last day: Performent day. Noticed that we have probably overfed shiaw lun. He's starting to look like a care bear. The volunteers are really trying to get our act together for the big day. I'm not too worried. What the children want is applause. What the parents want is to see their children on stage. Whatever happens up there. The applause is going to be thunderous. The day goes on like the last 2. The usual tantrums, the disappearing act,'oh great, now what?' scenarios, basically the volunteers solving little crisis.
I'm almost sad to let my children go back to their parents. They, even the difficult ones, are so much more forgiving that anyone i know, even children. What gentle souls.

I have gain so much from this short experience. And I encourage everyone to volunteer. Open up your heart. Collect karma points. Whatever. Jump.

How do you love someone? Just accept them.

1 December 2004

Pokemon...again

Well, energy level hit an all-time low. Again. After the short stint at Japan Airline,(curse our efficiency), i am once again in need of a job. The maths training thing didn't work out.

In the mean time, i seem to have fallen under the pokemon spell AGAIN. Dowloaded the GBA rom- FireRed, LeafGreen; and began playing 2 days ago. Been sleeping at 3am in the morning these few nights, and that's saying a lot. I can now proudly say that i have played almost all versions of pokemon for gameboy series. Ok, maybe proud is a strong word...

Lots to do during the day too. Since i'm too broke to go ANYWHERE, i've been addressing out this year chirstmas cards. Lucky I brought them and the stamps when i still have a little cash. Must call some friends to find out their address.

This weekend on the 4th and 5th of December, that's a Disability Awareness Programme going on at Expo from 10.30am to 9pm. I'm volunteering. See you there.